Process approach will not be successful if the gebetan insensitive let alone to consider us only as the sister even just a friend. For that you must be good to send signals that the gebetan love to know what you actually feel.
Perhaps you are one shy of saying your feelings. You think it's because of me trelalu quick to express feelings on the gebetan. Especially if you have only met once, twice and only knew a few days.
On the other hand you do not want if the spouse taken even further into the arms of others. Here's the point of being and issuing signals spouse love that is sensitive to your feelings.
Here are some ways to make spouse more sensitive to your feelings:
1. Responding activity
Keep you always comforted her and was always there when he needed it. With the concerns of small but can make the gebetan feel comfortable.
2. Diligent sent word
Always send messages and news to make the gebetan know that you like it. Then he will feel overlooked by you.
3. Use social media
Use social media to insinuate the gebetan but try if the gebetan are online.
4. Joking while insinuating
Use sweet nothings who could make him laugh lest he vomit hear. Do not go overboard, try to appear as simple as possible but still elegant.
5. Curhat to a friend spouse
Use friends to help you get close and let me know your feelings to friends spouse.
6. Prioritize your spouse
Do the things that can make your spouse feel your priorities and only him you did it all